Ben Marler, Jr.
Why does God say NO to any sexual acts outside of Holy Matrimony? Well,
first of all the chance of a man imparting his seed into a woman or girl is
not only possible but also probable. If this occurs then the sin becomes
greater. If the pregnancy is violently ended in abortion God is incensed.
This child, who did not ask to be born, is being denied his or her chance to
live. Satan has won this battle.
It should be pointed out if the child is allowed to live; it is not stained by this sin. It is born a sinner like all of us but he or she is not guilty of being born. We should treat all children the same regardless of how they
got here. All of them are precious to the Lord even as are their errant
parents. GOD LOVES EVERYBODY ALL THE TIME! Never forget this please. HE IS
If the child is allowed to live, the daddy is responsible for it until it is grown. Now I know many have neglected to care for their children born out
of wedlock but God knows all about it and will demand justice for them sooner or later. So, a man is at terrible risk when he is lured by Satan to
lust after someone who is not his wife. God has allowed many to become infected with horrible diseases while satisfying their lust. The most
terrible of all is AIDS. If there is anything good about AIDS it would be
the time given for the sinner to recognize his folly and repent before God
and be saved while they slowly die. Yes, God loves the ones with AIDS (regardless of how they became infected) and is willing to extend Amazing
Grace to them too.
Some of the other infections are so terrible that they scar and in some cases make it impossible to father children after one meets the woman of his
dreams. He has, in many cases, destroyed his ability to have a family unless he and his wife are able to adopt a child or children. Sometimes the
courts will catch up with a man who has brought a child into the world and
deserted it. This financial penalty wills always a burden to carry. It is
especially hurtful while trying to care for his family later in life when he
marries. HE SHOULD TAKE CARE OF HIS PRODIGY REGARDLESS!
What about the woman or girl involved in promiscuity. She has much more to
lose and should always remember that any man who wants her outside of marriage is selfish and uncaring for her or her intimate feelings. All he
wants is to satisfy the sexual lust that is driving him. He will say or do
anything to cause her to submit. Once he is through many will treat their
partner as trash. If women or girls knew what men said about them later
they would be incensed. They say things like how easy she was or she was
a good lay. Is this what she was thinking at the time? Of course not,
she was seeking someone to hold and comfort her. She was looking for fulfillment. What did she actually get? Well for one, maybe a terrible
infection that will either kill her or destroy her reproductive system. This is a terrible price to pay for a few minutes of pleasure.
If she becomes pregnant she will face those who care for her with shame.
Hopefully, she will not abort the child. This child may be the one who will
be born with the ability to develop medical, scientific or mathematical breakthroughs that will benefit all of mankind. We who love sports see many
on the fields who are extremely blessed with athletic ability. Thank God for
If the sin of fornication is committed by one (or both) who is (are) married
God calls it Adultery. This is one of the Big Ten, need I say more? This
act of disobedience greatly increases the sin and its consequences. Adultery has brought about more cases of divorce than any other reason.
Countless millions of children suffer today because of this sin.
Are you guilty now? Millions are all over the world. If you are, simply go into a secret place and admit to God what you have done. Tell Him how you
really feel about it. If you ask Him, He will forgive you. I promise. But,
let it be clear He is not going to give you a license to continue. To receive this license you MUST be united in Holy Matrimony. I didnt say, get married. There is an ocean of difference. God will provide a godly pastor to perform this institution of marriage if you seek Him. The first and most important is the COMMITMENT! Only God Himself can truly marry
you. If you are married now and want Gods blessing on your union go to a
godly pastor and ask him. He will be delighted to ask Gods blessings on
you. God is always THE Redeemer.
If you want to live in Heaven you best be born again of His Spirit and
learn His ways and do them. No one will enter into the Kingdom of God
without a white robe. He has one for you.
you desire to know more about this Jesus Christ who loves you, and you
want to ask Him into your heart, receiving His Saving Grace please
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